Historic gathering brings together Samoa's fa’afatama men
Bringing together the circle of fa’afatama (transmen) in Samoa was the goal of the Talanoa session spearheaded by the Samoa Fa’afafine Association.
Held at the Palolo Deep late last month, S.F.A. President, So’oalo Tootooalii Stanley welcomed the participants and applauded their courage to turn up.
“This gathering is the first of its kind and a historical milestone in the advocacy work of S.F.A. to be inclusive of all gender minorities as stipulated in its mandated functions and Strategic Plan 2016 – 2020,” So’oalo said.
“More importantly is the fact that this is a long overdue process to gauge the perspective and participation of the fa’afatama, a key population under the U.N.D.P. Global Fund Multi-country project.”
So’oalo also acknowledged the commitment by Ice Heather, a fa’afatama who mobilized the gathering and has been the only active fa’afatama in S.F.A.
“His involvement in S.F.A. has exposed him to national and regional gatherings which has enhanced his know how of issues affecting the L.G.B.T. (Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender) community and the importance of being visible and being heard.”
So’oalo said the Talanoa session touched on issues on the mobilizing of fa’afatama community is a challenge.
He said the culture of fa’afatama was not like the fa’afafine where it was natural to greet each other and build relations in public or when they crossed paths on a daily basis.
“It is the norm that they (fa’afatama) generally ignore each other and avoid any interactions."
“For instance, they were approached by us individually to participate but it is the first time most of them have met each other or in this case forced to meet each other."
“They tend to stick to their clicks and the fa’afatama they know with very limited efforts to expand."
“Most associate with other men through sports, friends and bands but rarely with other faafatama/transmen,” said So’oalo.
“Despite this isolation culture and norm, the talanoa session demonstrated their issues and concerns are more similar than diverse."
“There is no safe space for fa’afatama to share their problems or get support."
“Most find comfort in their close friends and family members who understand or relate to their situation."
“The challenges of growing up fa’afatama are generally suppressed putting first family culture and religion,” said So’oalo.
He also pointed out that as biological women; the associated cultural significance of the Samoa “woman” was a designation that was difficult to escape, particularly the expectations and demands by society of what was normal.
“They are faced with discrimination on a daily basis through verbal and physical abuse generally from close family members and the public."
“Although there is no recorded account of abuse, the participants shared stories of surviving abuse and if it weren’t for their ‘tough’ nature and presence, for most suicide was a feasible option."
“Support varied with some saying it’s their mothers or grandmothers who demonstrated the most support, where others confirmed it’s the opposite and their fathers were their main supporters,” stated So’oalo.